T. S. Eliot’s poem “Ash Wednesday” has been difficult for me to understand since I first read it many years ago, but it contains some lines which may be useful for our Lenten observances. First, some excellent practical advice, addressed as a request to God: “Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.” Superficially we may dismiss the advice as nonsensical, but it is wise. For all who help to care for other human beings, it is essential to learn to care well, and “not to care,” that is, to be emotionally detached and calm, rather than obsessively and emotionally involved. A care-giver who does not learn and practice “caring and not caring” becomes of little use to himself, and to those for whom he or she should genuinely be caring. This advice applies to parents, who all-too-often do not know when to “let go and let God,” who insist that they hover around and in effect control their children. (These are the infamous “helicopter parents,” who can be a real challenge for teachers.) As for “Teach us to sit still,” it is difficult to imagine a better request for a Lenten exercise. Just to sit still, without noise, without chatter, without TV or iPads and so on, without chattering at God as if He does not know what is truly for our good… “Be still and know that I AM God.”
Another understandable and profound line from Eliot’s “Ash Wednesday” pertains to the nature of our human existence: “This is the time of tension between dying and birth.” We exist in-between time and eternity, between attached love of self and selfless love of God and neighbor, between good and evil. Our lives unfold in the tension between, not simply on earth, and not in an imagined realm called “heaven.” And note that Eliot describes this “time of tension” as “between dying and birth,” which indicates the kind of dying and the kind of birth he has in mind. He is not thinking of mere biological birth and death, but of dying to ourselves and living to God and to others. We must first die to undergo a greater birth. The only way truly to be alive is to die to all in ourselves that is not from God, or in accord with God’s holiness, God’s will. We have a choice: die now, or die later. For those who practice living as a process of dying to their own wishes and wills in many ways, the last moments of life here are not a shock, but that for which one has been preparing. For those who live enmeshed in the passing moments, always thinking of “fun” and “what’s exciting,” when our time comes to pass out of this physical world, we are not ready. Unless we practice letting go of self in its various forms now, how do we expect to see and to love the “face of God” beyond death? Lent is what we make of it. At its best, I believe, Lent can be a journey from death-in-self into life-in-union-with-God. This process is not automatic, but costs us “nothing less than everything,” to borrow another line from Eliot. In the profoundly true words of the Apostle Paul, “Now I live, yet not I, but Christ lives in me; and the life I now live in the body I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself up for me.” Life and death are contending. What is deadly and kills the spirit often appears to be life; and what we think of as death may in truth be a sharing in real life. We are between death and life. Which do we choose? |
The single most important spiritual work of the parish priest in caring for the spiritual well-being of parishioners is preaching God’s word faithfully and as well as he can. Preaching and teaching the word is far more important than administering property. You are worth infinitely more than buildings and money. The main way that I have to assist you personally and spiritually is through the week-end homily in the context of a worthy and uplifting celebration of the Eucharist. Our attendance, paying attention, and open attitude are crucial if we are to allow the Spirit to give us the nourishment we need. As we nourish our bodies, so we must nourish our souls—our interior life. Unfortunately, in our American culture, we have often neglected spiritual and mental development for gaining wealth, acquiring “stuff,” and for our obsession with “having fun.” (One would think that many Americans are perpetual eight year-olds on holiday.)
The ministry of the Word entails communicating the Word of Christ. This word ultimately comes forth from Christ Jesus and is one with Christ. In preaching, one must strive to reach many, being aware that each person is unique with his or her own needs. First and foremost, each human being needs God—whether they know it well, or not. The goal in preaching is not to entertain; nor to “tell stories” for their own sake; nor to instruct with historical, biblical, or churchy information. Rather, the preacher must keep his mind on the goal: to help bring each hearer increasing contact with the God already and forever dwelling in the depth of the soul. The word of Christ is not imposed on the hearers, but flows from Christ present in the preacher to Christ present in the hearer—ever filtered through our human understanding and feelings. It is humbling and beneficial for the preacher to keep in mind that he is not peddling Christ as a salesman; rather, he helps the hearer to open up more fully to the presence of Christ already abiding in the soul. To put the matter differently: the preacher appeals to the hearer’s true and best nature—his or her life in union with Christ. If Christ were not already present in the hearer of the word, preaching would not be sharing Christ, but seeking to impose the Lord on “unsaved” matter. Similarly, at Mass the Eucharist is not given to an empty vessel, but to a human being who is already a member of Christ: The Body of Christ is freely given to the Body of Christ—to you carrying within you the living God, so that you may become more truly one with Christ.
It is Christ himself whom the soul needs, who nourishes the soul, who consoles the heart, and who wisely guides each back into union with the unseen God. The proclaimed word of God is one, but each hears and is nourished in a unique way. Each person truly receives “according to the manner of the one receiving,” and not according to the manner of the preacher. Through the proclaimed word, God-in-Christ tends each soul in ways He knows best, and as each hearer lovingly surrenders to Christ within. This spiritual work requires free cooperation and loving attention by preacher and hearers. It does not happen automatically. Each is free to resist God: the preacher to present his own thoughts or cute stories rather than the word of God; and hearers to attend to the living Word, or to close their minds and daydream.
The ministry of the Word entails communicating the Word of Christ. This word ultimately comes forth from Christ Jesus and is one with Christ. In preaching, one must strive to reach many, being aware that each person is unique with his or her own needs. First and foremost, each human being needs God—whether they know it well, or not. The goal in preaching is not to entertain; nor to “tell stories” for their own sake; nor to instruct with historical, biblical, or churchy information. Rather, the preacher must keep his mind on the goal: to help bring each hearer increasing contact with the God already and forever dwelling in the depth of the soul. The word of Christ is not imposed on the hearers, but flows from Christ present in the preacher to Christ present in the hearer—ever filtered through our human understanding and feelings. It is humbling and beneficial for the preacher to keep in mind that he is not peddling Christ as a salesman; rather, he helps the hearer to open up more fully to the presence of Christ already abiding in the soul. To put the matter differently: the preacher appeals to the hearer’s true and best nature—his or her life in union with Christ. If Christ were not already present in the hearer of the word, preaching would not be sharing Christ, but seeking to impose the Lord on “unsaved” matter. Similarly, at Mass the Eucharist is not given to an empty vessel, but to a human being who is already a member of Christ: The Body of Christ is freely given to the Body of Christ—to you carrying within you the living God, so that you may become more truly one with Christ.
It is Christ himself whom the soul needs, who nourishes the soul, who consoles the heart, and who wisely guides each back into union with the unseen God. The proclaimed word of God is one, but each hears and is nourished in a unique way. Each person truly receives “according to the manner of the one receiving,” and not according to the manner of the preacher. Through the proclaimed word, God-in-Christ tends each soul in ways He knows best, and as each hearer lovingly surrenders to Christ within. This spiritual work requires free cooperation and loving attention by preacher and hearers. It does not happen automatically. Each is free to resist God: the preacher to present his own thoughts or cute stories rather than the word of God; and hearers to attend to the living Word, or to close their minds and daydream.